Hello my lovelies.
This is difficult to write…so….deep breath…here goes….
I’m here to explain my absence – it’s been a long, long time since my last post. Lots has happened and I have to admit, I’ve been hiding. Hiding from the internets, hiding at work, hiding from work, hiding from friends (you know who you are and I am really very sorry), hiding from family, hiding behind smiley masks, but mainly hiding under duvets.
As some of you may know (my tweets might have given it away!) I was devoted to my gorgeous wee fella, Mr Stinky – aka Bilko. He found his home in my heart and made my life whole.
He was diagnosed with an auto-immune disorder last year and the end was so sudden that the shock left me reeling. The vets were just awful and while Mr Stinky lost his battle, the war with them is still ongoing.
It was so painful I never thought I would recover. There are days when I still don’t think I have, but at least I can function again. Every time I think of him my heart breaks and my eyes fill up with uncontrollable tears. I have to remind myself that the amount I hurt from missing him is equivalent to how much I loved him and how much he loved me.
I loved him a lot.
I didn’t notice that I was lonely until he came into my life and showed me the power of truly unconditional love.
Since he has been gone it has been almost unbearable.
I say almost, because I am still here. I am bearing it. I don’t know how, but I am.
I say goodnight to him every day before I go to sleep.
I say good morning to him every day when I wake up.
Walks seem pointless without my best friend.
I never noticed that before – until he showed me how amazing a walk should be.
Oh dear. I thought I had the strength to write this to explain my disappearing act (and my sudden re-appearance!) but as I type my eyes are leaking again. They leak a lot these days.
I will love him, miss him and remember him every day of my life.
But, Life goes on. So, I decided to give myself a good talking to. From somewhere I found the strength to pick myself up. I have given myself all the comfort I can cope with – it’s time for some Tough Love and it’s time I got back into the real world, so this is me.
I’m back, I’m still a little broken, but I’m here.
Here and getting back to teaching, writing, designing, reviewing and getting back to my old crafty self.
10 thoughts on “Absences, apologies & absent friends”
So sorry to hear. Dogs give us so much and only ask for our love and company in return. Your life will have been so enriched by his friendship that while you will always miss him I hope at some point the memories of the fun you had together will begin to outweigh the heartbreak of his loss. In the meantime, welcome back and blog on.
Thanks Nicky 🙂 lovely to hear from you x
What a lovely boy he was… dogs can get into your heart so much, and I totally sympathise x
They do – but they are worth it. If I could, I’d adopt all the dogs 🙂 Thanks Maria xxx
Oh what a handsome dog! I’m so sorry to hear that he’s gone. x
He was a very handsome boy – and I think he knew it too!
We haven’t met in person but you made me well up….you brave woman….very touching story.x
Hi Lorraine, sorry about that, thank you for your kind words x
Love you babes. xxx
Aw, thanks hon! Miss you loads – catch up soon? x